Sometimes two people who once loved each other now make each other miserable and they don’t know why? Millions of people separate and divorce each year with great suffering to themselves and their children when their relationship can be turned around. Couple’s coaching teaches how to block patterns of misunderstanding and estrangement, bring relationships back from the edge and recover the possibility of truly loving each other again.
Intimate relationships can give us the greatest joy but can also give us the greatest pain. One of the most important components of a relationship is trust. Creating trust can transform every relationship. Trust is not formed during the easy times, but in defining moments of difficulty and stress. Couple’s therapy looks at facing our deepest fears, tap into our inner strength and bring to our partners what they need the most.
According to human needs psychology we are all driven by the need to fulfil six human needs. These are not just desires and wants but profound needs which serve as the basis of every choice we make. These needs are Certainty, Variety, Connection, Significance, Growth and Contribution. We all to feel safe, secure, loved, important, needed and wanted but we must also constantly develop emotionally, intellectually and spiritually and give to others within our relationship. Within a session we can look at how couples are meeting each other’s needs and whether these needs are being met in a way that leads to pleasure or pain. Because an argument can get significance but in an unhealthy way.
Every person, to have balance in relationships, must be able to sometimes be vulnerable and sometimes be strong. Vulnerability can be a source of power. Social or economic or both perspectives can make a person egoist. Many people believe that to be vulnerable means you are weak and even create an ego to appear strong. Finding the balance of masculine and feminine energy in couples is vital to a balanced relationship.
Relationships go through many life stages, births, deaths. All people have different ways of showing and receiving love. Couples can get into a problem when their styles don’t match anymore. This can change with time and life stages. A young couple with a new baby may go through some big changes. Rediscover your partners love style, find out what can be added, plan relationship meetings and create new goals.
This is a new provision for our just-married couples. Newly married couples often exaggerated or exhausted thinking about how to set the lifestyle or partner’s assistance. Without taking a proper set of goals for the future, no couples can sustain themselves further in this modern time. Joanne helps couples who want to resolve their hazy plans. Two or three sessions are enough for new couples.
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